Frequently Asked Questions

 Think of these parties as an upscale dinner party with a twist...we have a DJ as well as lite appetizers and drinks that our bartender will be serving up all night long.  If you happen to click with another couple, you can excuse yourself from the main living area and head into one of the bedrooms for some more intimate fun. 

 We know that many young couples avoid clubs due to the perception that there will be a significant age gap between the average attendee and themselves. We have a number of couples in this group that are in their early 20’s. 

The annual membership fee for Northern Lights Society is free. There will be a small fee to attend parties but that covers, DJ, food and security. 

NLS prides itself on being an upscale alternative to the traditional lifestyle parties. We ask that both men and women wear black. Our security wears white so that it makes it easier to distinguish from one another. No shorts, hats or gym attire. We keep most of our parties business casual at minimum. 

 As with any other sexual situation, feel free to talk with potential partners about safe sex, STDs, and ask if they have been tested. No one is going to think you’re weird for asking, in fact, they will appreciate your responsibility. 

We do allow single females to join, single males are not allowed.